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The Masculinity Crisis Uses Misogyny to Fill the Void
When boys are taught that masculinity means hiding emotions, they may adopt misogyny as a way to reclaim power, identity, or belonging.
Dr. Mel Barclay
May 4, 2025
When boys are taught that masculinity means hiding emotions, they may adopt misogyny as a way to reclaim power, identity, or belonging.
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